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5 More Reasons They Quit Golf

July 11, 2012 | By Greg D'Andrea | Leave a Comment

Waiting is a problem in golf... (photo by Greg D'Andrea)
Waiting is a problem in golf… (photo by Greg D’Andrea)

Back in March, I provided five reasons why people give up on this great game.

And while I love golf, it wasn’t too hard to think of five more reasons to quit (sad, but true)! Here they are:

Golf is too Slow
In golf, you have to have patience. The reality of golf is it takes 4 to 5 hours to play 18-holes. And in that time, you’re actually only golfing for about 3 minutes. The rest of the time is spent waiting for others in your foursome to hit or the group ahead of you to hit (who are undoubtably waiting for the group ahead of them).

That’s the game – plain and simple. You hit and wait…hit and wait. That’s why I love golf – not for just the game, but for the camaraderie and conversation you get to have in-between shots. And the fact you can enjoy nature while walking to your ball. Golf is so much more than the time it takes to swing.

Golf is too Expensive
Way back when we started this blog, I wondered if golf is only for the rich. The reality is, the economy is putting the squeeze on our wallets. And with the prices of equipment; apparel; greens fees and even lessons – it’s easy to give up the game.

Obviously, this doesn’t have to be the case, as we pointed out in a more recent post. But the price tags associated with golf can and have driven people to quit.

Golf has too many Rules
People like simplicity. Take going to the driving range – it’s simple – you either hit it straight or you don’t. But once you get out on the actual course, there are rules for every move you make (not to mention proper etiquette to follow). The USGA rule book is so complex, entire books have been written to help golfers interpret it!

Yes, the rules of golf are demanding, but remember – if you’re not on the PGA Tour or playing in a tournament, don’t sweat it if you forget a rule. Trust me, if someone in your foursome is bothered by it that much, they will call you out on it.

They’re too Young
This is something we hit on in a post recently and it’s a real issue within the game – getting people in their twenties (or younger) to embrace golf. Many try it and then quit. Why would you want to play golf if you’re in a softball or basketball league? Or how do we get past the perception that golf is meant for older folks only?

The game is slow (as we addressed above) and this might be the number one reason the younger generation isn’t interested. But golf can be both competitive and social all at the same time, which in this day-in-age, might be the key to attracting (and keeping) young players.

They don’t have the Time
The house; the yard; the spouse; the kids; graduations; weddings; family cookouts…and I haven’t even mentioned your actual career yet! The reality is we all (well, most of us anyway) have lives off the course. And let’s face it – these lives tend to get in the way of playing golf.

You know the scenario – you play once in the springtime and the next thing you know you’re carving pumpkins. Time slips away until – for some – we forget this game was once important to us.

So take care of the house; the yard; the spouse; the kids; the graduations; the weddings; the family cookouts and the career – but don’t let them stop you from getting out on the course…even if it is only once in the springtime.

Filed Under: Stinky Golfer Paradise Tagged With: give up golf, quit golf, too expensive, too hard, too long

5 Reasons They Quit Golf

March 7, 2012 | By Greg D'Andrea | 24 Comments

Golf Hole From Hell
Sometimes they all feel this way… (photo by Greg D’Andrea)

As much as I love this game, there was a time when I thought about giving it up.

Even though I snapped-out-of-it and rediscovered my passion for golf, others don’t. Why?

Golf is too Hard
Perhaps the most common reason is that golf is simply too hard. But is it too hard or are they just too lazy? Last year, I penned a guest post for a popular golf blog in which I asked if we’re too lazy to get better at golf. Here’s an excerpt:

Practice makes perfect…Or so the saying goes. What that little phrase fails to articulate is how much practice it actually takes to make things perfect. Throw in an impossibly difficult sport like golf and attaining perfection becomes perfectly ridiculous. Now don’t get me wrong, there are a select few who not only have the raw talent to be great at golf, but also have the drive to spend countless hours on the range or putting green practicing…But I’m not one of them. And I surmise not many of you are either. As far as I’m concerned: I’m just too lazy to work that hard at something I’m never going to make a living at in the first place.

Yeah, golf is hard. And some people have the guts to deal with that reality and enjoy golf anyway, while others don’t.

They Hate Golf
So they tried it and hated it – meh, it happens. But how could you possibly hate a game as great as this? Well, I wrote about that also – in fact, I provided 5 reasons why people hate golf. Enjoy.

A Serious Injury
Let’s face it, you would have to be in a good amount of pain to give up on a sport like golf, but it happens. Be it your back, or knees, or in my case, my foot knocked me out for a couple months – there are reasons people are forced to give up this game. Sometimes the pain makes quitting unavoidable, but other times, it can be downright inspirational. And how a returning Vet who lost a leg can take up golf is both inspirational and remarkable. Makes my foot pain look rather pathetic, actually.

They Stink
This is different than golf being too hard. When people quit because the game is too hard, it’s typically because they’ve recently started playing and realize they don’t have the time or patience to get better. But when people quit because they stink, it’s typically because they are pompous asses.

For example, do you know a golf buddy who can’t stand it that you win all the time? You know – they guy who makes everything a competition, but get him out on the golf course and he’s less than stellar? Not being able to live with the fact that he’s not as good as you at something, he quits golf never to return. Now there’s a guy that takes himself way too seriously – and believe me, those people are out there!

They Lose the Will to Golf
What? Well, if you were reading this blog a couple months ago, you would know all about losing the will to golf. When we dig way down into our psyche, we realize that passions can, for one reason or another, simply burn out. There can be several causes for this. In my case, an extended lack in playing time, coupled with a shift in priorities, triggered the feeling that golf was no longer an important part of my life. While I have since come to my senses, I’m sure there are others (perhaps those who were never really passionate about the game in the first place) who will simply walk away from the sport because golf just doesn’t matter all that much.

I certainly hope you never quit golf – especially because you stink, or because it’s too hard. If we writers of the Golf Stinks Blog accomplish anything, it’s to convey you don’t have to be good at something to love it. And I certainly hope you aren’t forced to give it up due to an injury or perhaps worse, lose the will to play altogether. It’s true that golf is not for everyone…but if you love it, you know what keeps you coming back.

Filed Under: Golf Life Tagged With: give up golf, quit golf, too hard, waggle room, wounded warriors

Can You Lose the Will to Golf?

January 25, 2012 | By Greg D'Andrea | 5 Comments

Are times when golf is no longer appealing...
Are there times when golf is no longer appealing… (photo by Greg D’Andrea)

It sounds like such a stupid question; “Can you lose the will to golf?” You want to blurt out, “What kind of question is that???” But in reality, I think the answer to the question is yes.

Yeah, you can lose the will to golf. And it does’t matter if you’ve been playing for one season or twenty seasons – it can happen. It happened to me this past year. For a fleeting moment early last fall, I thought of golf and felt no emotion whatsoever. Not excitement over my next round; not disgust over my previous one; nothing. It was as if the sport was irrelevant to me. The flubs didn’t matter; the birdies didn’t matter; the drives that careened off into the abyss didn’t matter – the good, the bad and the ugly of golf were, in a word: Gone.

That fleeting moment pretty much shook me to my core. Could it be that easy to withdraw from something I held so dear for a good portion of my life? It seemed logically impossible, but emotionally, the empty feeling was there. And if I could lose the will to golf, then surely it could happen to other golfers.

Obviously, I’ve played my fair-share of golf over the years and I’ve written my fair share of golf-related articles. It would stand to reason that someone who hasn’t let golf become such a part of their life would have a greater chance of losing interest in the game.

I immediately considered that the cause of the problem – that I overdosed on golf. Like an addict that finally succumbed to his devices, I was a golf junkie who had become anemic to the game due to over-consumption – too many rounds; too many equipment purchases; too many musings translated into posts for this blog.

To compound my issue, this notion of overdosing worried me further. Was I “over” golf like a teenager is “over” their former BFF? It seems ridiculous to trivialize it like that, but when you feel nothing towards something you once enjoyed, you tend to be “over” it.

But somehow I knew I wasn’t “over” it. I can’t explain how I knew it – I just knew. And if I wasn’t over golf, then what? I didn’t play all that much last year – perhaps the lack of playing time contributed to my apathy? At the time, I also had an 11-month-old (now 15 months) pulling my attention away from golf – maybe the game wasn’t as important to me as it used to be? Or perhaps it was a combination of all these things?

Whatever the reason was, for that brief moment in time, I could care less about golf. But that moment passed as fast as it came and I was back out on the course in November thoroughly enjoying myself. Today, I can confidently report that I’m truly excited about playing again this spring – in fact, I’m even excited about going to the indoor golf range next weekend!

So, can you lose the will to golf (or to do anything else for that matter)? Absolutely. And even more unnerving; there may be no rhyme or reason as to why. In my case, it was a brief adulterous act in a long love affair with this game. But, I’m “over” it.

Filed Under: Stinky Golfer Paradise Tagged With: quit golf

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